My Reaction to #HurtBae

At this point, I am pretty sure that everyone that has an internet connection has seen the #HurtBae video. It features a girl that confronts her ex boyfriend about the reasons for cheating on her. At best this video is absolutely heart breaking at worst it's infuriating. After watching, I thought back on my own personal experiences and all things I wish I could have told myself.

It's Okay to Walk Away | There is a ridiculous stigma that walking away from a relationship means that you are weak but it's the strong that have the courage to stand up and say that I am worth more than this. So if your relationship no longer makes you happy then walk away, this life already has too many tragedies. 

You're Perfect | Don't let any one tell you that you aren't. Everyone has flaws, you have to find some one that is willing to love every part of you.

You are Not Alone | You aren't the first person to get their heart broken and you definitely won't be the last so find solise in your girl group to help you through this tough time.

Someone Else Will Come Along | It is scary to think about being alone even though you have been going through hell, you can't help but think "what if this is my last shot? What if no one wants me after this?" Well I am here to tell you that there is love after heartbreak. You will meet someone else amazing and they will be totally worth it. 

He Can't Save You | When you have been hurt and he seems to be the only one that can take that pain away, its easy to feel like he can save you. But he can't. And its not right to make him try. Some times knowing this simple fact helps you move on and be your own hero.

Being in a relationship is never easy. Whether it be romantic or platonic, or just a boy that you fell for without notice. Don't be afraid to talk about, find a listening ear and a comforting shoulder. I am always here if you need me. As always, comment below with your thoughts or chat with me on Twitter @anajanetheblog.